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It’s actually wild how long Richard Gere stayed the quintessential Hollywood bachelor—or at least, the guy with the most talked-about exes. First, there was the 90s powerhouse era with Cindy Crawford. Then came the steady, decade-plus marriage to Carey Lowell. But honestly? The person everyone is talking about in 2026 is Alejandra Silva, the Spanish activist who basically did the impossible. She didn't just marry the Pretty Woman legend; she convinced him to pack up his entire life and move across the Atlantic.
Richard Gere and his wife are currently living their best lives in Madrid. Yeah, you read that right. The man who is practically synonymous with New York City and Buddhism in America has swapped the Hamptons for the Spanish capital.
Who Is Alejandra Silva?
If you think she’s just another celebrity spouse, you’ve got it totally wrong. Alejandra Silva is a powerhouse in her own right. Born in A Coruña, Spain, back in 1983, she’s the daughter of Ignacio Silva, the former Vice President of Real Madrid. So, she grew up in the middle of Spanish royalty—the football kind.
She’s a publicist by trade, but her heart is clearly in activism. She runs the Rais Foundation, which works tirelessly to end homelessness in Spain. She’s even slept on the streets herself to understand the reality of the people she’s trying to help. That’s not "socialite" behavior; that’s real-deal commitment.
The Meeting That Felt Like "Karma"
The way they met sounds like a script Richard would have rejected for being too "on the nose."
They actually met when she was a little girl. Richard was a family friend and once borrowed a boat from her father. Fast forward to 2014: they reconnected at a luxury hotel she was managing in Positano, Italy. Both were going through divorces at the time. Sparks didn't just fly; they basically exploded. Alejandra has said in interviews that their "karma" was attracted the moment they saw each other. They’ve both said they felt like they’d known each other for many lifetimes.
Kinda deep for a first date, right?
Richard Gere Wife: The 33-Year Age Gap
People always want to talk about the age difference. He’s 76 (as of 2025/2026) and she’s 42. In Hollywood, that’s almost a cliché, but they handle it differently. Alejandra told Hello! that she actually feels like the older one sometimes because Richard has so much energy. He apparently promised her "at least 20 good years" when they got married in 2018.
They had a secret civil ceremony in April of that year, followed by a big party at his ranch in New York. Since then, they haven't really been apart.
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The Move to Spain
The biggest news recently is their relocation. For years, they lived in a stunning home in New Canaan, Connecticut. But in late 2024, Richard decided it was time to give back to his wife. He told Vanity Fair Spain that Alejandra had spent six years in "his world," so it was only fair he spent the next six in hers.
They are now settled in La Moraleja, a posh neighborhood in Madrid. It’s a huge shift for Gere, but he seems to be loving the "Spanish way of life."
A Growing Blended Family
The couple has two young sons together:
- Alexander, born in February 2019 (now 6 or 7).
- James, born in April 2020 (now 5 or 6).
They are notoriously private about these kids. You won’t see their faces on every tabloid cover. Instead, Alejandra shares the occasional "back of the head" shot on Instagram, showing them gardening or visiting farms.
They also have kids from previous marriages. Richard has Homer, his 25-year-old son with Carey Lowell, and Alejandra has Albert, her 13-year-old son from her marriage to Govind Friedland. It’s a big, messy, beautiful blended family that seems to actually get along. In 2025, Richard was spotted on the red carpet with both his wife and his eldest son, Homer, looking more relaxed than ever.
Why This Marriage Is Different
If you look at Richard’s past, this feels... settled.
With Cindy Crawford, it was the "supercouple" peak. They were both too famous, and Cindy has since admitted the age gap was a struggle because she was still finding herself. With Carey Lowell, things were more private, but they eventually drifted apart because of lifestyle differences (she liked the social scene; he wanted solitude).
But with Alejandra, there is a shared mission. They are both Buddhists. They are both obsessed with humanitarian work. Whether they are working on sustainability projects in Mexico or attending galas for the homeless in New York, they are doing it together.
What Most People Get Wrong
Most people think Alejandra "tamed" the Hollywood star. In reality, it seems like she just met him at a point where his priorities had already shifted. He doesn't care about being the "American Gigolo" anymore. He cares about the Sierra a Mar project and making sure his kids grow up knowing their Spanish heritage.
What to Expect Next
Don't expect Richard Gere to retire just yet, but do expect him to be much more selective. His move to Spain suggests he's prioritizing life over the "hustle."
If you want to follow their journey, Alejandra's Instagram is the place to be. She’s the one who provides the rare glimpses into their life—like Richard celebrating his 75th birthday or the kids decorating a Christmas tree in Madrid.
Takeaways for the Curious:
- The Move is Permanent: This isn't just a vacation; they've sold their primary U.S. real estate.
- Activism First: Watch for more collaborations between the Gere Foundation and Alejandra’s Spanish initiatives.
- Privacy is Key: They will likely continue to keep their young children out of the spotlight to give them a "normal" upbringing in Spain.
The story of Richard Gere and his wife isn't just a "celebrity romance." It's a case study in how two people with massive lives can find a middle ground that actually works, even if it means moving across the world to do it.